Saturday, July 17, 2010
Yesterday, I decided to re-add my husband as a friend on Facebook. (Yeah, it got that juvenile at one point)
He then proceeded to update is relationship status as married to me and when I confirmed the relationship, I had no idea what I was getting myself in to.
See, I have this tendency to forget that every little thing I do on Facebook is documented for all of my "friends" to see. I wasn't prepared for all the responses that I got and the apparent confusion it caused. It apparently meant something far more significant that I imagined! I thought it was just a statement of fact- I mean, I AM married to the guy, but it was taken more as a declaration of epic proportions!
I just want to take this time to officially declare the real status of my relationship.
We are separated. We love each other. We do not want to file for divorce. We are taking this time to focus on our own personal issues (A first on his end). Time will tell what happens for us, but we both want to save our marriage. If things continue on this current path, I have every hope that we will eventually come back together and live happily ever after. He is staying in Corpus Christi for now. I am staying in Lubbock. That's about it.
I hope this clears up any confusion. OH, and I don't normally say this, but I'd appreciate it if you kept your opinions to yourself. I've had my fill.
Posted by brandi at 2:30 PM