tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3645488627416278666.post7525183531224814952..comments2013-03-26T11:33:22.855-07:00Comments on La Vida Subida: Day 32- Love meets sexual needsUnknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger1125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3645488627416278666.post-61332756481604633462009-05-25T10:16:08.098-07:002009-05-25T10:16:08.098-07:00Hey Brandi--It's me, Michelle =)Kyle and I sta...Hey Brandi--It's me, Michelle =)<br><br>Kyle and I started the love dare a few months ago and never went past Day 4!! We got "too busy" to read the chapters...Reading your blog has inspired us to start again and actually finish it--we read Day 5 over the phone last night. So, I just wanted to thank you for the inspiration to continue BEFORE I leave my comment. =)<br><br>In your entry today you mention self-esteem/insecurity. I know exactly how you feel. I don't know exactly which self-esteem issues you are battling, but for me it is my weight gain. It makes me shy about my body. I think the best "fix" for this is to talk to him about your insecurities and self-esteem. Tell him that you feel awkward initiating because you are shy about these things. I will bet all the money in the world that he will tell you that you are BEAUTIFUL (because you are!!) and that you are silly and he loves you and everything about you. When you hear those words, it will help. Then, you just have to do it and each time you realize that you become more comfortable. Eventually, the insecurity is just an afterthought.<br><br>It's not going to happen in a day, but like all things in life, if you work at it, it will get better. I truly believe, however, that you need him to help you--with his words, encouragement, etc. He needs to help you feel beautiful if you don't, or whatever the case may be!snowedinnehttp://snowedinne.livejournal.com/noreply@blogger.com